Not the countdown until the hubster arrives in San Diego (that has been going on for almost 6 months and it'll hit zero soon enough). This countdown is a much more explosive one. I'm not saying that things have been a breeze being separated from the hubster. We were thrown back into our long distance relationship days and it has been tough. Things were easier back then. We had hardly spent more than a few long weekends together. For this separation, we had been living together for over 7 years.
Now that the hubster arrives on Jan 1, the time bomb between him and I will have defused, but now the fuse has been lit for the time bomb between us (hubster and I) and my parents. You can almost cut the tension with a knife and once the hubster is here permanently, you will be able to cut it with a knife.
What we need to have happen is:
- hubster finds a job
- we find a tenant to rent our place (hopefully, a good one who wants to stay forever *keeps fingers crossed*
- Find a house to buy or a place to rent
All this needs to happen within the next few months or who knows what state my relationship with my parents will be once I leave their house for the second time in a decade.
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